
When you do that sort of thing, you are sending a clear message: “I do not think you like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to buy your attention and your affection.” You should know: It is in the natural order of things if this happens. You must relate to this: How many times have you taken a woman out to dinner, you’ve bought gifts and flowers, and she turned you away? Without men, most restaurants and as many florists would get bankrupt. Women get actually annoyed with approval-seeking men. But, if you think that treating a woman well means to always try and get her approval, I strongly urge you to think twice. Of course, I'm not suggesting that rude or harsh behaviour is the key (on the contrary, I think that is unacceptable without exceptions). In the desire to please women, men strive to get women’s approval or permission. When a woman does not want them, they do their best to change her mind. You are trying to give a logical response to an emotional demand.īut guys do it. You cannot convince a woman to feel attraction for you with “logic and reasoning”. Well, I have news for you: You cannot change how she “feels” when it comes to attraction! What do most guys do when they meet a woman they really like and she is not interested? They will try to convince her to the contrary in every possible way.

Until you accept this fact and begin to think according to it, you will never have the success with women that you want. Women go after the men they “feel” attracted to.Īnd guess what ? Being a “good guy” will never make a woman attracted to you. There is a very good reason for this: women do not pick men based on whether they are “good guys”.

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